
How can we discern the voice of God?
Chad, I appreciate the question you have asked. Many people feel that they have heard God’s voice in different situations and times. When people recall a story from their past they might sometimes say, “I really felt like the Lord was saying to me…” So the question is: “How do we know the difference between God’s voice and our thoughts or imagination?
I insist that God has already spoken. I insist on finding the answer to this question from God’s Word. Here is my basic understanding of our human situation. We make errors. Even in matters that are insignificant or trivial, we still make errors. I have made the mistake of misunderstanding my wife when she tells me about a terrible day she has had. In my mind I am wondering, “Since she is telling me this she obviously wants me to do something about it.” Wrong! I assumed that she wanted a list of steps of how we could change the situation instead of simply offer emotional support. I misunderstood my wife.
Ok, why am I using this example? I am using it because my wife wasn’t intentionally trying to deceive me. The bible says that there is an unseen reality and in it there are good and evil beings. The supreme evil being is Satan and one of the most common qualities that the Bible ascribes to him is deception. He is a deceiver and the Father of lies. Now, since I misunderstand someone that I can physically see and hear how much easier would it be for me to misunderstand someone that I can’t see or hear? I think it would be pretty easy.
So, how do we know when God is really speaking to us? God is constantly speaking to us through his word. I believe that the word of God is God’s primary way of speaking to his people. Listen to what Hebrews tells us:
“In the past God spoke to our ancestors through the prophets at many times and in various ways, but in these last days he has spoken to us by His Son…” Hebrews 1:1-2
The important thing to understand from this passage is that there is a clear difference between the way God talked with his people in the past and the present. Further, it doesn’t comment on how God will speak in the future other than through his Son. We need nothing more than the written revelation of God to understand what God wants from our lives. I base this reason on the support of Scripture:
“His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.” 2 Peter 1:3
Think about the reason why we want to know if God is speaking to us. I’m guessing that you want to know because you want to obey God and live in obedience to Him. With that in mind look at the scripture again. It says that God has given us everything we need for a godly life THROUGH our KNOWLEDGE of HIM. Therefore what do we need for a godly life? Knowledge of who God is! The only source for true knowledge of God is found in His word. That is why there is such an emphasis on God’s word:
“All Scripture is God breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness, so that all of God’s people may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” 2 Timothy 3:16-17
I could go on and on but I want us to look at the example of Jesus. People were always asking him about spiritual things or criticizing him for what he did. When Jesus was confronted about different matters many times he settled the matter based on what God had said in the Scriptures.
For example, one day the Scribes and Pharisees came to Jesus and asked him why he and his disciples broke the tradition of the elders and didn’t ceremonially wash their hands before they ate. Jesus asked right back, “Why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? For God said, 'Honor your father and mother' and 'Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.'” (Matthew 15:1ff) In short, what these Pharisees had been doing was declaring their possessions as devoted only to God, so when their parent needed help financially they would say, “I can’t help you because everything I own is devoted for God’s use.” This was a tradition that wasn’t found in Scripture and because the Jews followed it they were guilty of disobeying God for not taking care of their parents. The command that was given by God was “honor your father and mother” (Deut. 5). Bottom line, Deuteronomy was written 1400 years before Jesus walked this earth, yet it was still the word of God that was to be obeyed.
Another great example is when Jesus was tempted by Satan in the wilderness (Matthew 4). Satan came to Jesus to tempt him and said, "If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread." Jesus found insight on how he should respond to this temptation based on the teachings found in Scripture. “Jesus answered, "It is written: 'People do not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” That is what God commanded in Deuteronomy 8:3. Satan then took Jesus to the highest point of the temple and told him to throw himself down because God promised to protect him. What did Jesus do? He guided his actions by the truth of Scripture, “Do not put the Lord your God to the test!” (Deut. 6:16). Satan gave it another shot and took Jesus and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and said that he would give them to Jesus if he would bow down and worship him. Jesus screamed, “Away from me Satan! FOR IT IS WRITTEN: ‘Worship the Lord your God and serve Him only!’” (Deut. 6:13). Jesus guided his actions by the one source that had the authority of God, the word of God.
Now let’s come back to our situation today. I simply want to ask you a question. Have you ever heard someone tell you that they felt God speaking to them and what they told you was in direct conflict with what the Bible teaches? For example, what if someone told you, “I’ve really been seeking God’s will on whether or not I should have sex with my girlfriend or wait and the other morning during my prayer time I heard God say to me that he wouldn’t be angry with me and that he understands me and that he actually made me to enjoy sex!”
How would you approach this person? I want to point out that unless we have an absolute standard then anything goes. I am thankful that God has given us his standard of truth and his will for our lives in Scripture. What does the word of God say? “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified, that you should avoid sexual immorality…” (1 Thessalonians 4:3). Is it possible for God’s will to change? No! God is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8).
So the only way that we can be sure that God is talking to us is if that little voice in your head is in harmony with what God has spoken in Scripture. If it isn’t, don’t even think twice about listening to it.